31 May 2008

About a Boy

I realized all my new posts have been about Julia. She IS the main consumer of my time and energy and works hard to overshadow her calm little brother, but I do, in fact, have two children.
Liam is now 3 months old. He has a sweet disposition. For the most part he only cries when he's really hungry or something hurts. For anything else he gives a short squeal and then just waits patiently for someone to tend to his needs. He smiles at everyone who talks to him and will ham it up when he knows he's got your full attention, cooing, grinning, sticking out his little tongue and flirting shamelessly.

He can roll from back to front but not consistently. He often flips himself over and then looks shocks to find himself in this new position. His head is getting much stronger, and he's discovering that he can actually control his arms a bit and that they aren't just independently flailing appendages that whack him in the face every now and then. He's not proficient at grabbing things yet, but he bats at his toys in a valiant effort.

All of his antics keep me thoroughly entertained, but my favorite milestone so far is his laughing. He has a great sense of humor already and will chuckle, belly laugh or even snort a little at funny faces, silly songs and being tickled.

By the way, the snail outfit was a major hit with Julia! Thanks to cousin Hayes for passing that on!

The Snail

Julia loves gardening and could spend hours outside digging in the dirt and watering the plants (too bad she tends to the same area-- about 2 square feet--every time we're outside or else I wouldn't need to do any yardwork myself). Daddy got a small lemon tree as a present for doing well on his exams last semester, and it is her current favorite plant in the yard. The caterpillars helping themselves to the lemon tree's leaves were particularly interesting for awhile. But the other day Julia was tending her little garden as usual and found a treasure....A SNAIL complete with a nifty shell. Okay, so the shell was dull brown and the snail was actually decaying inside of it, but to Julia, this was an incredible treasure!

She spent the longest time examining the decaying contents (which she then wanted me to clean out), and then she proceeded to show it around the yard. I think she was letting it choose a new place to live. She took it to each corner of the yard (and also the patio, the BBQ grill, and a laundry basket lying out by the clothesline) and in what I imagine was her best realtor's voice, gave the sales pitch on the perks of the various locations. He chose the BBQ grill at first, but apparently gave up that lease in favor of better view from the retaining wall.For almost two weeks, Julia would wake up each morning and sit at the kitchen table for breakfast while staring longingly out the window and begging me to let her go out and see her snail (I drew the line at having him as an indoor pet). It was such a woeful day when she dropped him on the patio and the shell was crushed beyond recognition. So woeful in fact that we spent the next half hour scouring the backyard for another. Amazingly, we found a second snail (also just a body decaying inside a fragile shell). Fortunately, by the time that one met his maker, the novelty had finally worn off.

Outdoor Art

With the nice weather (and Liam happily napping in his swing in the doorway), Julia and I took our craft morning outside. I gave her a sponge brush and fingerpaint (washable, of course), and I let her paint the outside of our kitchen window. This was the longest I've seen her interested in an art project! She carefully painted bright patterns and thought it was really cool when it dried because it looked like stained glass. The best part was that she enjoyed the clean-up effort (I gave her another paintbrush and a bucket of water, and she "painted" it clean).Continuing with our graffiti theme for the morning (and hoping it won't lead to delinquency in her teenage years...), we moved on to covering the patio with chalk drawings.

Note: the "bruise" above her eye is actually just finger paint. (a real one came later, but the tale of that fall will have to be left for another post).

Across the Ocean Blue...

Matt and Julia joined Simon and Sarah on the bay for some sailing and windsurfing recently. I think Matt managed to stay mostly upright on both the boat and the windsurfer. Julia stayed on the shore to avoid potential capsizing and to perfect the art of sandcastle building.

"First, I'll just get the foundation nice and level"


"What do you mean I have to do ALL the digging myself...where is the crew I hired?!"


"Now Sarah, you take that water back to the job site. Steady now, don't spill any"


"Mmm, all this work is making me hungry"


"Is it meant to lean over like that?"


"Hmm...now it's not there at all"


"Ooh, I think Daddy needs a rescue"


"Hey guys, I'll just take this one out there, okay?"




I'm still here!

I know, I know...I've been a bad blogger! So this is a quick post to say that I'm still here and working on getting pictures uploaded and blogs written.

Coming soon....

Nana's here!
Starting law school (take 2)
Fun times at the beach
21 months, going on 13
Laughing Liam

And more...
(Might even get to the quirks tag, Brittany!)

25 April 2008

The roof..the roof...the roof is on fire

It was just an ordinary Thursday. We'd had a full day of swim class, sidewalk chalk drawing, finger painting, tummy time in the backyard with Liam, and a playdate at Crazy Critters (our favorite indoor playspace). Matt was at class, and the evening was unfolding as usual...

5:30pm - Liam happily gazed at the bird mobile on his cradle swing. Julia sat at the kitchen table eating her dinner and periodically pointing out to me that I need to wash the windows (she's a cleaning critic these days).

6:00pm - Put both kids in the bath. First time trying to bathe them simultaneously, and it was going well. Julia was showing Liam all of her bath toys. Liam was smiling and cooing at Julia (he is so responsive to her).

6:15pm - Took Liam out of the tub and let him kick around on a towel while Julia played some more.

6:20pm - Started trying to convince Julia that it was time to get out of the bath. Loud no, no, no's and splashing ensued. Started to let out the bath water. Thought I heard a smoke alarm going off but assumed it was the neighbors.

6:21pm - Just trying to grab a wet, squirming Julia when the alarm sounds got twice as loud as a second smoke alarm joined the first. ***PANIC*** Realized, those were our smoke alarms going off. And here I lost track of time....

Realizing I couldn't leave Julia alone in the bath or with Liam (thank goodness Liam's little enough to stay where you put him!), I picked up wet, naked Julia (who had stopped squirming the second she too heard the alarms going off) and went racing into the hallway. Sirens blaring. And ***MORE PANIC*** some smoke coming from the kitchen, thick black smoke from just above my head all the way to the ceiling. Thankfully, no flames though.

Trying to make it all somehow into a fun adventure, I explained (in a calm panic) to Julia that we needed to get away from the smoke. Fortunately, the children's rooms are at the other end of the house from the kitchen, so I raced us all into Liam's room and did the world's fastest diapering. I got Liam dressed but I'd just washed all of Julia's warm PJ's and they were in the laundry basket in our room still (again far away from the kitchen, thankfully), so poor Julia is shivering (it's fall here, remember) as we all head to our bedroom. Meanwhile, I'm trying madly to open windows and doors along the way.

Kids dressed, we went straight outside. We'd played out there a lot during the day, and I hadn't had a chance to clean up yet, so Liam's bouncy seat was out there, along with a picnic blanket and some of Julia's toys and books (for once it paid off to not be on top of the housework). Thank you, open plan houses....our bedroom, living room, and kitchen all open onto the backyard, so I was able to keep an eye on Julia and Liam and still go back in to try to open up the rest of the house and make sure no appliances were on (nothing was...I didn't know what had caused the fire/smoke). Once the windows and doors had all be opened and all the fans were on full blast, the sirens went off and I breathed a small sigh of relief that the worst was over.

I'd been trying to call and text Matt since we went outside, but his phone was off completely so I couldn't get through. I called my good friend Debbie who lives about 5 minutes away and told her what was going on. Her husband, Steve, was meant to be out late for a business dinner, but he just happened to walk in while I was on the phone with her. I was pretty sure we were in the clear but still a bit concerned so being amazing friends, he got right back in the car and came over to check things out. Julia was happily playing outside. Liam had fallen asleep in the bouncy seat, so Steve & I ventured into the kitchen.

The smoke had mostly cleared to reveal blackened cabinets & range hood all above and around the stove. I had used one of the burners at suppertime and was scared at first that I'd left something on, but everything was turned off. We have an old electric stove (that I hate) that takes ages to cool off after a use, so often one burner is still warm an hour or two after it's been turned off, but when we went to the stove, three of the four burners were not just warm but hot. And covering most of the kitchen surfaces was a dusting of ash. We looked all around but couldn't figure out what had burned. It didn't seem to be anything short-circuiting at least. Best guess from the smell was that it was something plastic, maybe something that had blown or been knocked onto the stove while that burner was still hot. Whatever it was had burned off completely, and judging from the blackened area around the stove there must have been some pretty sizeable flames at one point.

Anyway...more time passed and I decided Julia's and Liam's rooms were safe with the windows and doors still opened, so both children went to bed and I started the cleaning battle against smoke damage. Still not winning that one...

When Matt got home my chest was feeling really tight and my throat was sore from the smoke I'd inhaled along the way. Between that and paranoia over the children's exposure, we decided to call the doctor to get checked out. Gotta love a country that still has doctors who make house calls!! An older Indian doctor came and was able to listen to give us the once over, listening for any breathing difficulties (didn't even have to wake up either child!). He had a very thick accent and the world's most nonchalant way of delivering his medical opinion. It went something like this: "All is fine. Just some mild carbon monoxide poisoning. Burning paper not much to worry about. Burning plastic though...many toxic fumes. You probably inhale that some. No worries. You inhale too much, it goes to the brain and you pass out. Then we worry. But you're in the clear now. All fine."

And thankfully, we are all fine! I think the kitchen cupboards might even make it.

20 April 2008

Spring has Sprung in the Fall

April arrived bringing fall weather to our part of the world, but still it feels like spring. However, some adages like "April showers" are the same whether (no pun intended) it's fall or spring. Our yard is loving the rain, and we've had a few more craft days while the parks are too wet. I got Julia an art smock (craft day is more fun when you know it doesn't mean extra laundry!), and she loved our new painting project -- clip a cotton ball with a clothespin and you've got a great toddler paintbrush! Sidewalk chalk on our covered patio is fun too! Our best addition to our craft box though has been the enormous roll of butcher paper that Matt brought home from work last week. Some big machine is no longer in use so the extra rolls of paper went to the daddies in the office. Hours and hours of drawing and painting ahead of us now, and I've hung a clothesline on one of the walls in our hallway so Julia now has a place to showcase her current artwork.

Despite having adapted in many ways to life Down Under, I cannot adjust to the switched seasons here. For me, April is spring, July is summer, and it's completely weird to be in shorts and t-shirts in the middle of December! No matter how much I try to shift, apparently some habits can't be broken, so last week found me in spring cleaning mode. Of course, with two kids in the house, spring cleaning is neither as efficient nor as thorough as it's meant to be, but I did get into a flurry of activity, clearing out under the beds and in the tops of the closets, airing out pillows and blankets and rugs. Julia thought it was great fun when I took all her toys and play furniture outside for a deeper clean than the wipe down it usually gets. The novelty of having her whole play area set up outside provided so much entertainment that I left it out there for our two rain-free days. Too bad the results of the cleaning didn't last long...

The cooler weather is such a treat, and it hasn't been raining the whole time so we have also gotten to enjoy many sunny hours at the local parks running and climbing and wearing ourselves out. By "we" I mean Julia and me. Liam, on the other hand, is the epitome of relaxation and spends most of his park time in the pram or on a blanket, sticking his nose into the wind like a puppy dog and smiling a lot and then falling asleep. This week we discovered the fantastic Queen's Park in Ipswich that has (literally) acres of green space, picnic areas, and play structures of all sorts, including a zipline that even adults were playing on! They also have a free wildlife enclosure and gardens, but we had already worn ourselves out before we even made it to that part. Next time.